I will ask you
what might sound as a very strange question. When was the last time you talked
to a stranger? Not out of necessity but, spontaneously, or out of curiosity?
In an age
defined by digital convenience and efficiency, genuine curiosity and interest
in others seem to be quietly slipping away from everyday life. Automated
checkouts, messaging apps, and virtual interactions (all wonderful tools, that
were supposed to get us closer to distant friends) are steadily reducing the
chance for spontaneous conversations, the kind that demand our attention and
openness, and let us see life beyond our own bubble – after all, how can you
engage in a conversation in a simple shopping queue, if everyone is instantly
neck down, looking at a screen? Society increasingly prioritizes efficiency (and
simple, instant dopamine rewards, let me tell you) over connection, and the art
of engaging with someone purely out of sincere curiosity is becoming rarer.
Yet, this
authentic curiosity is a powerful force for growth and understanding. When we
pause and show real interest in another person’s story, we open ourselves to
experiences that would otherwise remain inaccessible. By listening deeply (and
this is an art that demands concentration and attention), we momentarily step
into a different reality and allow ourselves to marvel at new perspectives,
traditions, and ideas; it’s like glimpsing the world’s richness through a fresh
lens. My father is a (not-very-self-aware) master of this, as he is genuinely
interested in talking with all kinds of persons, and is able to listen and have
meaningful conversations with board members, astrophysics and country-shepherds
alike – the richness of conversation that would then flood our family dinners
(also because my mother was and is his match on them) shaped me and my brother’s
minds forever.
Each time
we connect with someone and truly engage with their story, we’re reminded of
how remarkable and diverse human experience really is – and we build up the way
we think, to become more open, considerate of other’s experiences and lives.
These exchanges encourage empathy, foster inclusion, and broaden our
understanding of what it means to belong to a community – or, actually, even simpler,
to be human. In a time when disconnection and incuriosity are on the rise,
making space for these conversations brings back wonder, mutual respect, and
the joy of discovery, breaking society bubbles that imprison us – setting us
free to understand the diversity of human thoughts and lives.
